Thursday, April 14, 2011

Follow your heart not your heart

Q. My boyfriend is an international student. We love each other, but he doesn't believe in marriage whereas I do. Should still follow him when Uncle Sam gives him the boot?

A. No.

If you follow him, it likely won't end well for you. Either you will sacrifice a major core belief and carry an emptiness with you for years to come. Or you will both realize you simply want different things and eventually part ways, leaving you in a foreign place with little support system. I wouldn't recommend sacrificing something you believe in for something as common as love.

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